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Written by Online therapist Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, Ph.D.

Busking

Craft, Commitment, and the Courage to Be Seen

Busking isn’t just street music, it’s a public declaration of passion. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection honors Marty Rafferty’s record-breaking performance and invites us to consider how we show up for our own craft, and for others.

Do you know what this word means?

I had never heard of it until watching the BBC News today. While doing my morning exercises, I enjoy listening to the BBC News, and suddenly the MC starts talking about a guitarist breaking a record.

That piques my interest because I used to play the guitar and enjoyed it very much.

I have lived for decades. Why have I never heard of this word? Okay, there are probably many words I have never heard of. That should be okay. The world is full of words. I cannot realistically know every word.

Busking is the act of playing music on the street corner. Before yesterday, the world record for busking was 26 hours. Yesterday, a guitarist in Ireland broke the record by playing for 30 hours.

Here is a guy who does not just break the record. I mean, you could break the record by one minute, but he went above and beyond. He went 30 hours straight with brief breaks for self-care. And he had a broken thumb. Who does that?

He is devoted to his craft and brought attention to his work. I admire that devotion and hope that the attention meets his goals. So, today, I honor Marty Rafferty for his dedication to his craft.

How are we all doing in bringing attention to our craft? What is your craft? Where do you place your energy, and how does it benefit others?

Who among you would set out to break a record and then go on to accomplish it? There is actually a record for blog writing! Darren Murph from the US wrote 17,212 blogs as of 2010. He averaged writing 12 blogs a day. Now, as a writer, I can tell you that the pace of 12 a day would be exhausting. To average that over years of writing would make my head spin. So, do not expect me to challenge the record.

However, I am curious about the people who devise these challenges. Marty Rafferty accepted his guitar-playing challenge to raise money for a charity. His motivation was to buy toys for children at Christmas. I think that is lovely.

Regardless of your background or heritage, the thought of a smile on a child’s face at Christmas is a joy. His effort brought worldwide attention to his cause. The world needs this type of attention.

If you’re reflecting on purpose, creativity, or how to share your gifts with the world, therapy can help. Learn more about individual therapy in Maryland and DC or explore therapeutic approaches that support clarity, passion, and meaningful contribution.

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