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Written by Online therapist Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, Ph.D.

SNOWED IN

When Weather Pauses Life, and Opens Possibility

Being snowed in can feel like an interruption, but it can also become an unexpected invitation. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection explores how a forced pause can create space for rest, connection, and small acts of renewal.

This phrase can be used literally or figuratively.

Today, I am literally snowed in. The snow is not deep, but it is topped by a thick ice crust. After the fluffy flakes fell, the air turned icy, sealing the snow beneath. The whole town is encased, making snowplowing tough. Our road, usually cleared in hours, will be plowed late tomorrow. Really late.

This weather is interesting. Teenagers are earning good money shoveling. They break the ice layer first, then remove the pieces before tackling the snow below. They are working hard for their pay.

So, when you are stuck at home for a day or two, what do you do? This pause in normal activities opens new possibilities.

If you have a fireplace, light a fire and nap in front of it. Or read while warming your feet. Or enjoy the fire with family and start a jigsaw puzzle.

If you lack a fireplace, use the kitchen. Snow days are perfect for cooking. Try an old family recipe, make a hearty soup, or bake cookies. Everyone will welcome an apple pie. Surely you have a basket of apples.

If you are ambitious, organize that closet you have been avoiding. With spring events coming, now is the time to clear out clothes. Someone will give them a second life.

I advise against clearing out the attic right now. The snow will melt soon, so starting this project is not timely. The attic is too full to sort through easily unless you are snowed in for an extended period, like being trapped in the Rockies. This storm will not last that long. Get out of the attic.

Want to explore more about rest, reflection, and emotional well‑being during seasonal slowdowns? Visit Psychology Today’s insights on how rest supports emotional health and Greater Good’s research on how small pauses support well‑being.

If this reflection inspires you to embrace stillness, reconnect with comfort, or create emotional grounding during winter’s interruptions, therapy can help. Learn more about individual therapy in Maryland and DC or explore therapeutic approaches that support resilience, balance, and well‑being.

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