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Written by Online therapist Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, Ph.D.

BOOK SIGNING

BOOK SIGNING

Ink, Intention, and the Gift of Connection

A signature isn’t just a name—it’s a moment of meaning. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection explores how book signings and inscriptions become emotional bridges between author and reader, giver and receiver.

Have you ever signed a book for someone?

This past weekend, I was invited to the Reading Glass Bookstore in New Jersey to sign copies of my book, “Read, Reflect, Respond: The 3 R’s of Growth and Change.” The bookstore is located in a mall with a lot of foot traffic. Sitting at a table in the front of the store allowed me to beckon passersby and enjoy talking with them about their experiences with journaling and encouraging them to take a book home.

The lovely thing about this book is that it has no discernible order. You can approach it from any direction. You can jump around depending on your mood for that day or week. Another thing I truly love about this book is that the response page is unlined. The page is blank, leaving you the opportunity to draw, scribble, or scratch as the mood strikes you. Our responses to reading will not always come in the form of words. Sometimes, we need to draw or scribble to connect with our thoughts and feelings.

Even if you haven’t published a book, I bet you’ve signed one for someone. As a preteen, I went through religious training, and my parents signed a Bible for me. As a professional, I participated in a year-long training program led by a well-known author. At the end of the training, I was awarded one of his books, which he had signed. Then, I asked the members of my small team to sign it as well.

Books are treasures. When a book is given to you, the giver has a special purpose. First, I believe the gift is a sign of respect and love. Second, I think the book has a clear intent. The giver wants you to benefit in some way, and giving you this book is a way of honoring the relationship with you and encouraging your growth.

When have you given a book to someone? Now is the time!

P.S. A few people asked about the book signing, so I’ve put together a photo album on Facebook for you to check out. Take a look here: Book Signing Photo Album

Interested in building emotional insight through reflective practice? Explore individual therapy in Maryland and DC or learn more about therapeutic approaches that nurture emotional growth through creativity and connection.

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