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Written by Online therapist Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, Ph.D.

Breaking the Silence: Emotional Development in Boys

Silence doesn’t happen overnight. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this conversation explores how boys learn to shrink their emotional world, and how we can help them reclaim it.

Good to see you,

This week, I joined Father Talks for a deep and honest conversation about the emotional development of boys and men. We explored how early messages teach boys to narrow their emotional range, how those lessons follow them into adulthood, and why so many men struggle to feel safe expressing what they feel.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • How boys learn to shut down emotionally, often without anyone realizing it
  • The powerful role fathers play in shaping emotional literacy
  • Why men need safe spaces to express feelings without shame
  • How journaling supports emotional awareness and growth
  • Why younger generations are beginning to shift toward greater emotional openness

This conversation is about understanding how silence forms, how it affects relationships and well‑being, and how we can begin to create space for healthier emotional expression in boys and men.

🎧 Watch on YouTube: Father Talks – Breaking the Silence

Rooting for your growth,
Gloria Vanderhorst

If this conversation sparks reflection about emotional expression, parenting, or personal growth, therapy can help. Learn more about individual therapy in Maryland and DC or explore therapeutic approaches that support clarity, resilience, and deeper emotional connection.

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