Skip to content

Written by Online therapist Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, Ph.D.

Health

One Body, One Chance, Let’s Treat Get Your Health Right

Health isn’t just a checklist, it’s a relationship with your body. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection explores the excuses we make, the risks we take, and the simple truths that can lead to lasting change.

When was the last time you paid attention to your health?

Ahh! I hear you. You don’t have time. You don’t like the doctor’s office. Monitoring at home is a pain. You don’t have the tools to monitor anything. Those heart things on your cell phone seem too easy to trust. You don’t want to find out that something is wrong.

Have I caught all of them? Oh, you are scared and would much prefer to be surprised.

Look, you have one body. You are not like a car where the body can be replaced. You have one of these, and you are responsible for keeping it in good order. However, if you look around on the street or in the mall, you will clearly see that most of us do not keep this thing in good order.

Recent statistics show that 42% of U.S. adults are obese, and nearly three-quarters are overweight. That sounds scary.

If you are a traveler, you will notice that people in most other countries look very different. Most are the size and shape of a normal, healthy adult. Americans approach the size and shape of other mammals, such as walruses and whales. What is wrong with us?

How is it possible that billions of people in different parts of the world eat well, walk places, and maintain a healthy body weight? Americans spend close to $80 billion a year on weight loss. Read that again: billions of dollars.

Interestingly, Europe is catching up with the U.S., particularly in Spain, due to the popularity of new weight-loss drugs. These medications—like Wegovy, Ozempic, and Mounjaro—are part of a class called GLP-1 agonists. While they can be effective, they come with a long list of potential side effects: pancreatitis, thyroid tumors, gallbladder issues, kidney problems, and allergic reactions.

Now, if a door-to-door salesman came by offering a new product with those side effects, how likely are you to buy his product or send him packing? What are we doing?

Ladies and gentlemen, food is available. Manage that, and it will not cost you a fortune. You will be able to reach your weight goals without risking long-term harm to your body. You will be stronger as you add exercise to your day. You will save a ton of money. You will be proud of yourself.

Want to explore how lifestyle changes support emotional and physical health? Visit CDC’s Healthy Weight portal and Psychology Today’s guide to small habits and big change.

If you’re navigating health concerns, emotional overwhelm, or lifestyle transitions, therapy can help. Learn more about individual therapy in Maryland and DC or explore therapeutic approaches that support clarity, strength, and self-care.

related blog post by Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, Ph.D.

Read more of my stories and reflections

A man in the city reading about practicing compassion and protection for the homeless, symbolizing emotional growth and loss of adult identity in Maryland and DC.

The 3 P’s for Men | Redefining Masculinity and Emotional Connection

Procreation, Provision, Protection, and the Emotional Disconnect Manhood has long been defined by three cultural imperatives: procreation, provision, and protection. But what happens when these roles discourage emotional connection? For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection explores how traditional expectations shape men’s relationships, and how we can rewrite the
Read My Post
A person in a garden full of artichoke, reading about Growing Up Alone in a Digital World symbolizing emotional growth and seasonal reflection through therapy in Maryland and DC.

Video Games | The Emotional Cost of Growing Up Alone in a Digital World

The Hidden Emotional Cost of Growing Up Alone in a Digital World I write this for the numerous 20‑somethings who consistently tell me they spent their childhoods playing video games alone in their rooms. The imagery is heartbreaking, but the social and emotional consequences are life altering. They come into
Read My Post
One of the teachers journaling about the meaning of the word “like” with mental clarity on a Sunday in the new year, symbolizing language evolution and emotional expression in Maryland and DC.

Body Movement, Mental Clarity, and the Case for Making Time

EXERCISE Body Movement, Mental Clarity, and the Case for Making Time Exercise isn’t just physical—it’s mental, emotional, and creative. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection explores how movement supports not only health but insight, problem-solving, and emotional resilience. Have you had your annual physical? Do you get a
Read My Post
A person studying their mental storage locker and thinking about the reason you snap, symbolizing emotional unpacking and trauma recovery in Maryland and DC.

The Real Reason You Snap at the People You Love

Featured Interview with Stacey Chillemi Hello, I wanted to share a recent interview I participated in with Stacey Chillemi titled The Real Reason You Snap at the People You Love. One of the central themes of this conversation is that many of our strongest reactions are not solely about what
Read My Post