END OF THE YEAR
Reflection, Intention, and the Power of Personal Agency
The calendar may turn, but transformation begins within. For individuals in Maryland and DC, this reflection explores how year-end rituals invite clarity, gratitude, and intentional planning for a future shaped by choice.
As November and December play out heading to the end of the year, celebrations of all kinds are happening. We focus on being grateful for the brave souls who crossed an ocean and risked their lives to start a new country. We are focused on faiths of all kinds, honoring our spiritual histories, and pausing to examine the meaning of life itself. When we approach the year’s end, we commit ourselves to new beginnings and better ways of being present with others.
In this season of reflection, be intentional about taking time to reflect on your past year. December is a suitable time to find a comfortable spot and sit quietly with pen and paper. Look at your past year. What stands out to you? Positive and negative. Where have you been? Who have you spent time with? Look at how you have invested yourself over the past year and examine the impact. Some of you have invested in your children and grandchildren. Some of you have spent time with friends and colleagues. People’s interactions can be a blessing or a challenge. Reflect on how you have functioned with others, and think about what you want to repeat, what you want to change, and what you want to add for the future. People are our most precious assets.
In this season of reflection, be intentional about taking time to plan your year. The good news is that you get to choose how this coming year will go. Of course, you cannot select all the parts, but you can choose many. You have time, energy, and resources. Be intentional about how you want to invest in each of these. Examine how you have spent your time in the past year. I am sure you had ideas and dreams about what you wanted to experience. Do not just dream about them. Make real plans. See that aging aunt in Idaho. Take that flight to Iceland to experience the Northern Lights. Stop talking about what you want to do and where you will go and make actual plans—volunteer at the soup kitchen. Spend time in the NICU holding babies.
The next year of your life will be filled with your choices, whether intentional or not. The question is, will these choices be intentional? So many times, we move through our day, our week, our year without intention. We talk about having goals. I want to lose weight and keep it off so that movement becomes easier. There are clear directions on how to do that. I need to follow them. I want to spend time with friends and have meaningful conversations. They would welcome that. I need to call them. I want to practice my instrument to make the music light and easy. I need to take the time in my day and do it.
We are coming to the end of the year. The new year is just around the corner. I have agency in many parts of my life. If I sat with a pad of paper and a pen, I could be clear about areas of my life where I have agency. I could take myself seriously. The new year is ahead; I can fill the pad with specific plans and goals.
Want to explore structured ways to reflect and plan your year? Visit Savvy Sparrow’s printable end-of-year reflection worksheet, Productive Fish’s guide to year-end reflection and planning, and Psychology Today’s questions for closing the year and preparing for the next.
If you’re reflecting on personal growth, intention, or emotional clarity, therapy can help. Learn more about individual therapy in Maryland and DC or explore therapeutic approaches that support emotional insight and life-stage transformation.
By Dr. Gloria K Vanderhorst
